Eish Shaok Schools

Genoa

Genoa / Italy

Lessons: every tuesday

Ceriale

Ceriale / Italy

Lessons: every thursday

Milan

Milan / Italy

Lessons: every monday

Vicenza

Vicenza / Italy

Lessons: fortnightly lessons

Bologna

Bologna / Italy

Lessons: every tuesday

Rome

Rome / Italy

Lessons: fortnightly lessons

Livorno

Livorno / Italy

Lessons: fortnightly lessons

Bremen

Bremen / Germany

Lessons: monthly seminar

Brussels

Brussels / Belgium

Lessons: monthly seminar

Overcoming Unfulfilled Expectations

The distance that forms between us and others in a relationship is always the result of many small unfulfilled expectations.

Moments in which we wished the other would give us that attention, that affection we felt in need of, and instead found them absent, distracted, not empathetic enough.

And from the missed expectations often also comes a certain amount of anger. Anger that is always desperate love, a love that no longer finds its way to express itself, its path to fulfillment.

Yet, this mechanism can be overcome, indeed overcoming it means encountering a great personal and spiritual change.

And this happens when you not only realize, but feel and experience, the awareness that the people you meet will never be able to fully meet your expectations and that when they fail, it’s not because they have something against you, but simply because it’s not their job to fill all the needs you carry within: that’s a task for you.

Everyone desires to be loved so much and forgets that loving oneself is the fundamental prerequisite for starting. Because only those who are capable of loving themselves, of being their own first friend, accomplice, partner, are capable of loving others and supporting them on their path to happiness.

Recognize how many unfulfilled expectations you carry with you, how much desiring love beats in your heart and direct it from the start towards yourself, respond to it through your relationship with yourself.

Every distance is overcome when it is overcome within.

An embrace in love

David Simurgh
David Simurgh

European manager for the Eish Shaok International Association. He spreads the principles of spiritual awakening through his work as a teacher, lecturer and writer. To date, he is the author of three first books on the Eish Shaok path: "I will tell you about them I- In the Beginning", "I will tell you about them II- In the Celestial Abode" and "Beyond Yourself". The books can be ordered here: ilgiardinodeilibri.it.

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