Agree With Them
When someone wants to be right at all costs, make them a precious gift: agree with them.
Because it’s not your job to convince someone who doesn’t want to listen, who wants to go their own way or considers it better than yours. And if you let the people around you make their own choices, you will feel lighter. Just accept that you can’t decide for them, that you won’t always be able to help and advise, and that if you try, sooner or later you will feel sad, frustrated, exhausted.
Agree with those who absolutely need to be right, and then continue on your own way, as if nothing had happened, while observing what happens.
Soon you will see that being right has never served anyone, it will not be enough, it is never enough. Because anyone who is right must immediately start creating a reality consistent with their beliefs and see if it really works, put it to the test, test themselves. How many things will be discovered along the way, every reason must transform into truth or an experience necessary for the truth.
Learn to let go, to let them go their own way. Who knows, all lives are intertwined with one another, maybe one day you will meet again and discover that you both were right.
If they want to be right at all costs, give them and yourself a precious gift: agree with them.
A liberating hug.
