The Transformative Power of Rejection
Everyone can easily feel it: experiencing ourselves in relationships is one of the reasons why we incarnate on Earth. Few, however, can admit that feeling rejected in relationships is one of the most important experiences we can have on this wonderful planet.
Every intimate encounter, every bond and alliance we meet on our path allows us to discover who we truly are, to test ourselves, and to grow. And how many times have you opened up, exposed yourself, given yourself, and unexpectedly received rejection?
It is one of the most painful moments of the human experience; the greater the investment of emotions, dreams, and hopes in a relationship, the greater the pain felt in that rejection.
And yet, it may seem incredible to you, but we also incarnate to experience that pain. Do you know why? Because it carries with it an indelible lesson.
Energetically, everything you have given to the relationship after the rejection returns to you, inside you. All your vital force that you had given out returns within. And rejection becomes a precious opportunity for you to return as well.
To remember who you are, what you desire, what you believe in, your values… and all of this not in function of the other, but of yourself, of the true you.
Rejection is not at all a failure, but rather a road sign indicating the way, an invitation to remember the most authentic version of ourselves, more aware and ready to nurture the seed we carry in the depths of our heart.
Do not fear rejection, do not try to avoid it at all costs, because you were born to receive it when you need it most, when you have said many “yeses,” but in a direction that was not yours.
A genuine embrace.
