That’s not for me
“That’s not for me” is such a dangerous belief that it often seems harmless to us.
It is repeated by those who have a buried trauma, those who denied a part of themselves so long ago that they don’t even remember.
It’s like when you have a muscle block, and making that movement seems impossible. At first, you try to heal, to find a solution, but if that doesn’t happen, the body simply adapts, and the block seems to disappear. You move misaligned, but you don’t notice it anymore.
At least until the Universe tests you, until it places someone as agile as a gazelle next to you. At that point, you feel something is wrong, but you don’t know what it is. You tell yourself: “Maybe moving like that just isn’t for me.”
“That’s not for me” is such a dangerous belief, and yet, it might sound incredible, but it’s also one of the most courageous statements that exist. When you’re no longer willing to compromise, when you’ve discovered who you are and honor your talents, your way of doing things. And you know that every yes and every no must be said solely for you, to respect and love yourself.
How do you understand the difference? How do you uncover the truths hidden in this phrase?
A small trick: “When Life invites you, always start by saying yes and then listen along the way.” This way, you will discover in the field who you are not, who you are not yet ready to be, and who you were born to become.
A hug for you.